Sunday, January 2, 2011

Telling Him the Truth

Question. Why is it okay for a man to say, "I'm looking for a wife, because I'm ready to settledown," but its not okay for a woman to say that?

This peaked my interest because when it comes to dating I am always told to play it cool, and act less interested than I really am, or to act as though I'm not looking for a boyfriend, or a real relationship. So since that hasn't been working, and because I've technically been single for 2 years, I'm going to do the complete opposite. For the next month (Yea only a month...I won't go crazy lol) when a man asks me what I'm looking for, I will tell them a mate, a partner, someone to have a relationship with me that is mental, and spiritual (notice I left out physical). And we will see how it goes from there.

Let's begin this Journey together everyone. Self Love going after what you want and desire.

Stay Chocolate.

2 comments:

  1. I love it! I agree about the double standard in relationship "truths". It is always assumed that women want to marry whoever asks them and men want to marry as a last resort. There is a large grey area in between those two extremes so the most important thing is HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY :) Self love and stay chocolate

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  2. Aww Thank you! and yes there is def a double standard! This will be very interesting to say the least!! =)!

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